In my Simon in Germany post When the Small Things Matter, I wrote about remembrance, loss and the poppy, a small flower with a big meaning.
In this lesson we'll learn vocabulary for remembrance and symbols, look at how one symbol can mean different things in different cultures, and practise should, must, mustn't and don't have to for advice and obligation.
This lesson comes from my Simon in Germany blog post.
Read: When the Small Things MatterActivity
Is there a flower, colour or symbol that means something special in your country? Could it mean something different somewhere else?
💡 What is a symbol?
A symbol is an object, sign or colour that represents an idea.
In the UK, a red poppy is a symbol of remembrance. It reminds people of the soldiers who died in war, because poppies grew on the battlefields of the First World War.
Vocabulary
| Word / phrase | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|
| remembrance | remembering people who have died, especially in war | For most people it's a simple symbol of remembrance. |
| a wreath | a ring of flowers or leaves | Veterans laid wreaths at the Cenotaph. |
| a veteran | someone who served in the armed forces, especially in a war | Every year there seemed to be fewer veterans. |
| to fall silent | to become completely quiet | It was the same day the UK fell silent. |
| a delegation | a group of people sent to represent a country | Officials asked his delegation to remove their poppies. |
| to criticise | to say what is wrong with someone or something | Anyone on television without one is quickly criticised. |
| humiliation | a feeling of shame and lost pride, caused by someone else | Remembrance to one country can mean humiliation to another. |
| a stiff upper lip | not showing your feelings when things are hard | We're the nation of the stiff upper lip. |
Grammar: should, must, mustn't and don't have to
| Form | Use | Example |
|---|---|---|
| should / shouldn't | advice: a good or bad idea | You should learn about local traditions before you visit. |
| must / have to | obligation: it's necessary | Visitors must take off their shoes in some temples. |
| mustn't | prohibition: it's not allowed | You mustn't talk during the two-minute silence. |
| don't have to | no obligation: it's your choice | You don't have to wear a poppy. It's up to you. |
The "muss nicht" trap: In German, Du musst nicht means you don't have to. It does not mean you mustn't.
✗ You mustn't wear a poppy. (it's not allowed)
✓ You don't have to wear a poppy. (it's your choice)
Practice A: Complete with wreath, veterans, fell silent, delegation, criticised
- At 11 o'clock, the whole town ______ for two minutes.
- The mayor laid a ______ of red poppies at the memorial.
- Fewer ______ march in the parade every year.
- The minister was ______ for not wearing a poppy on TV.
- The British ______ refused to remove their poppies.
Show answers
1. fell silent
2. wreath
3. veterans
4. criticised
5. delegation
Practice B: Choose should, must, mustn't or don't have to
- It's a free country. You ______ wear a poppy if you don't want to.
- You ______ check what flowers mean before you give them as a gift abroad.
- Passengers ______ show their ticket when they board.
- You ______ use your phone during the two-minute silence.
- In Germany, you ______ bring a gift to a birthday party at work, but it's a nice idea.
Show answers
1. don't have to
2. should
3. must / have to
4. mustn't
5. don't have to
Practice C: One flower, many meanings
Match 1–4 with a–d.
- a red poppy in the UK
- a white poppy in the UK
- a blue cornflower in France
- the poppy in China
- a symbol of peace
- a reminder of the Opium Wars
- remembrance of soldiers who died in war
- a symbol of remembrance worn on 11 November
Show answers
1. c
2. a
3. d
4. b
Language learning can be really challenging. I know, because I'm a language learner myself. I hope the information and activities were helpful. Try the following:
Think of a symbol or tradition from your country. Write four tips for a visitor, using should, must, mustn't and don't have to.
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This lesson comes from my Simon in Germany blog post.
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